Walk With Me TV appearance was “totally cool”

Posted by Bob Glowacki on June 24th, 2009

Last week Milwaukee Fox 6 TV featured an interview about our June 19 Walk With Me event.

The interview gave me an opportunity to spend some quality time with Stephanie Mayer and her son, Kyle. Kyle has autism, and he received a scholarship for inclusion in our P.L.A.Y. Project (Play and Language for Autistic Youngsters) last year.

We all had to wait over 30 minutes for the interview to begin, and Kyle was a pleasure to be with. He admitted he was a little nervous, and he held tight to his Buzz Light-Year and Woody toy for comfort. Eventually he cuddled next to his Mom and asked, “can I sit on your lap?”

Using cues from both P.L.A.Y. and new techniques from Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA), Stephanie encouraged his positive behavior. You would never know the struggles the family had with Kyle just a couple years ago. I knew, though — and I was truly amazed at Kyle’s progress.

A number of months ago, the family allowed our P.L.A.Y. Consultant Amanda Dobberstein to share a few videos of Kyle. The first session showed Kyle playing with three sets of objects in less than a two minute segment. Kyle had his back to his Mom and little sister during the entire period. Kyle’s mom kept asking questions, trying to engage Kyle, but he was pre-occupied. No interaction, no warmth — just sharing a room, not sharing an experience.

Now, a year later he is cuddled up next to Mom with his toys in his lap using his “big boy voice.” Of course, moments before we headed to the studio, Kyle asked his mom, “can I go to the bathroom?” Mom answered, “not right now, dear.” Kyle waits. Patiently.

Throughout the interview Kyle sits quietly, the bright lights of TV shining in his eyes. Stephanie tells the audience how the Easter Seals autism Web site helped her realize Kyle’s need for services. What a great feeling it is to know we were there when he needed us.

Later that night, Kyle had over 30 people walk on his team at our Walk with Me event in Milwaukee. One of those walkers was Amanda Dobberstein, Kyle’s original P.L.A.Y. consultant. He and his Mom told nearly 400 walkers about the progress Kyle has made and how grateful they are to Easter Seals for providing the scholarship.

This was a day when all the pieces came together — years of planning, fundraising that resulted in a caring staff providing services that change a life. Kyle may need only limited services when he moves on to first grade next Fall because of the work of Easter Seals early on.

On a personal note, my daughter Molly tagged along to the interview. There she was, off to the side, clad in her Walk with Me tie-died t-shirt, hearing about what an impact the agency Daddy works for makes in someone’s life. She thought it was “totally cool” to meet Kyle and see a TV station. Hearing her say that Kyle is a lot like her little brother Tommy was another life lesson I was glad she gained that morning. And you know what? I thought it was “totally cool” to be at that TV station with Kyle and his mom, too.

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